Modesty man disfigures

' Modesty adorns '. Well, show me one who she graced? .

You know, for some time now, and in fact for quite some time, I have been doing small private psychological practice, free - relieve stress built up by Rapoport and reflection on some things, give advice and just listen. Here's the evidence shows that. skromniki not interested in people. They have their first, do not notice, secondly, is inextricably linked with their idleness. On the contrary,. ambitious people notice immediately. And those who can and embodies the ambitions - of the love, or at least, respect.

In order not to run for a long time, I am, as always, on a. While other examples abound.

In the garden I had myself in mind - was opposed to the team, I only knew how to read, so I read books in their group instead of the teachers. And the wise men do not like. But now thanks to the mother.

The school has been corrected, the mother was not so much to me to push upward, as the opportunities - she then had the opportunity to, well, for example, take the whole class on an excursion to the neighboring states. So I was quite successful in the classroom. I was pretty modest young man - the yards are not climbing, spending time in the library - where I was an honorary reader (remember how difficult it was to get to the library collection of works Volkova, especially the yellow fog). The girls in my interests were, and here I am in them - there is no.

In spite of my modesty, I am grade 4 to 8 was JI - Chairman of the Board of the detachment, and the last two years the Vice Chairman of the Board squads. I was never a nerd - go hiking, playing soccer, melted lead from batteries. I just always tried not to stick out their knowledge - they are there and there is. I once single-handedly won a citywide mezhdushkolnoe ' What? . In general, what I did, I've always shied away from publicity. And what were my bonuses? . Although the mother later told me that the director of two o'clock detain her, did not want to give the documents when I was transferred to another school ( moved to the regional center).

In another school, I re-training the last two classes, and continued to be as conservative. And the first year at uni I was a modest. So what? . no good. Careers are not growing, the authority did not grow up, girls did not appear even on the horizon.

That's when I started to change a. Painfully, with errors. With the departure of a star in the disease. I often swing. But then climbed and bonuses. I have a better estimate - a point for the popularity and usefulness in general for the Department of. I began to talk more - because now had to talk and explain, and the hammer, and to persuade - to own speech in full. I became more sociable (although I'm moody introvert by typology ), I had friends and acquaintances, not only for the group in which I was. I met with a mass of interesting people. The first time I was able to please a girl. And no one.

I never learned to pick. I think that seduce the girl for fucking - nasty. The desire should be mutual. I'm not a prude, I do not a prude, but just say - let 's have sex instead of talking so that you do not give a slap - this I have spent years.

After leaving the business, I do not know how to sell. Now I know to sell something you should be able to sell yourself first and foremost. I heard about the tests in some companies, when they propose to sell a piece of paper. Yes, no problem. My only summary was tuned to the point and was a three sheets to text 12pt. Then I read dozens of resume - people can not write about myself. They do not know how to praise themselves. I'm constantly forcing myself to praise their employees by. I did not tell them 'what bitching design ', I say ' well you yourself think? '. And people grow. A little funny to see people not much younger than themselves signs of greatness and stardom - when I turned up their. But the main thing - they learn to love yourself, to get up every morning with the thought -. I'm a guy (girl ) just zaebis!.

I have always believed that. love for others comes through self-love. Love - as good ( and bad ), a sense of comparative. Do you understand the love can only be compared with the absolute. And how to get the absolute? .

So humble person does not paint, she hides it from him the possibility of the same. Although there are not humble people, who for the ' modesty ' hide laziness or weakness. ' I did not get the place because Bob rushing to the head, and I'm shy. ' Yes, you're not shy, and a lazy fag - Bob, even though it ebashit less, but cleverly shows the results of labor. Well, that's mind for some reason does not want to make a person not just do something, but to show it to others.

Historical examples? . Everywhere we were the first left-hander, but modest. Now we are proud of them, though the pride of this urapatriotnaya. And I more impressed by the success of our tenissistov (s ) that will not fail, and take part in fashion shows, and say how much they love their country.

Not a small and no shame - to sell (or if you wish to file ) a. Small and shamefully then sit in the kitchen, rattling on the edge of the table herring and complain life is simple. Like you, this bitching proffesionala spared and thrown into the street. Be!.